Val 517 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 I will say this though, part of finding my happiness was me willing to make changes. It was tough but I had to stop drinking...I had to let go of the anger I felt. I exercise, work, take care of my family etc. I had to be willing to work for these things. It doesn't just happen. I think that's the problem. I think you keep HOPING that things will change. You keep trying to force love, or trying to get everyone to accept you when that's not the case. I also think you get frustrated when it doesn't happen overnight and you fall back to your same routine. I understand that depression is a lot more complicated then just saying "go exercise" but it's part of trying to push past it. You can't wallow in your own self pity. You're too grown for that. I'm sorry your mother died. I know that is a lot to take regardless of age. @Wilco If you're gonna read anything from this post READ AT LEAST THIS: Get therapy. Find someone to really express yourself. NOT THE FORUM. Sorry to say but these people here are not your friend. Stop overhsharing here. All they will do is make fun of you and make you resort to your old ways. There is a reason why people leave Social Media. The internet is credibly vicious. There are miserable people that only find happiness through making other peope miserable. I don't need negative shit in my life so I leave and I don't give a fuck. You should try to do the same. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Val 517 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 7 minutes ago, Doctor Dom said: You're a hot mess too lady, RE: last week's meltdown episode. Happiness indeed. Yea because a post arguing with people here really defines me lol Im sorry if the forum means YOUR happiness, but that shit don't count as mine 😂😂 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Doctor Dom 1,904 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 3 minutes ago, Val said: Yea because a post arguing with people here really defines me lol Im sorry if the forum means YOUR happiness, but that shit don't count as mine 😂😂 Glad to hear that, you just came across as disturbed and a bit of a mess...remember how you were apologising to every one of us in thread form? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Val 517 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 1 minute ago, Doctor Dom said: Glad to hear that, you just came across as disturbed and a bit of a mess...remember how you were apologising to every one of us in thread form? Yea I agree. I was on pain meds that day (I said it in the thread that I was in bed sick) I do feel bad. I used to get really drunk and be mean for no reason to people that were nice to me on the forum. I don't think that's right. But I have issues with some posters here that I am always going to have problems with. It is what it is. I was aggrevated with you for example because you kept liking posts that were attacking me but you then you tried to act like you were being friendly with me. I never had an issue with you, in fact if I am correct and you are the same Doctor Doom in Mygnr , we were pretty cool at Mygrn cause I used to laugh at how you were playing the character. If you're not the same then nevermind. I did resolve it with a few people and I am ok with that. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Doctor Dom 1,904 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 3 minutes ago, Val said: Yea I agree. I was on pain meds that day (I said it in the thread that I was in bed sick) I do feel bad. I used to get really drunk and be mean for no reason to people that were nice to me on the forum. I don't think that's right. But I have issues with some posters here that I am always going to have problems with. It is what it is. I was aggrevated with you for example because you kept liking posts that were attacking me but you then you tried to act like you were being friendly with me. I never had an issue with you, in fact if I am correct and you are the same Doctor Doom in Mygnr , we were pretty cool at Mygrn cause I used to laugh at how you were playing the character. If you're not the same then nevermind. I did resolve it with a few people and I am ok with that. Yeah same person, I thought we were cool too. I was being friendly. Care to answer my Axl question now? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Popular Post Damn_Smooth 11,916 Posted January 11 Popular Post Report Share Posted January 11 Does anybody really give a shit if this bitch is angry or not? Seriously, what is the pathetic nerd going to do? Type in capslock and wish he had the physical strength to rape somebody? Even the weakest girls could kick the shit out of him, so it doesn't matter in the least. Miser, be mad, don't be mad, nobody cares. You're a sorry ass piece of shit either way. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Val 517 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 7 minutes ago, Doctor Dom said: Yeah same person, I thought we were cool too. I was being friendly. Care to answer my Axl question now? Sorry but what was the question? 😅 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Val 517 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 What is this rape thing everyone keeps saying? Who was Miser saying he wanted to rape? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Ragnar 3,158 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 The fact that he uses his mother's death to gain some sympathy is pathetic beyond words. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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Dazey 1,003 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 2 hours ago, Val said: What is this rape thing everyone keeps saying? Who was Miser saying he wanted to rape? He wrote a fantasy fan fiction story fantasizing about @AxlisOld and his family getting raped and worse. Y'know, normal stuff that's not at all terrifying. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Popular Post John Bonham 25,772 Posted January 11 Popular Post Report Share Posted January 11 5 hours ago, Jeff Isbell said: I'm not a Miser hater, but self-pity doesn't gain anything positive in general I’m not a Miser hater either, but what does he expect with threads like this? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Sick Boy 18,990 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 attention. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Popular Post arnold layne 11,435 Posted January 11 Popular Post Report Share Posted January 11 I WON'T BE TOLD ANYMORE THAT I'VE BEEN BROUGHT DOWN IN THIS STORM Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gordon Comstock 2,172 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Miser.... how many times have you made an "I've changed" thread over the years? It seems like you make them shortly before your impending meltdowns, then come back with a new username and rinse and repeat every 6 months. Val's right that you really need to stop using gnr forums as therapy and go see an actual therapist. Get the fuck off whatever you've replaced xanax with and talk to someone in real life who can actually help you, instead of writing things on here and hoping it comes true. Good luck man. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
GnRLiars 4,461 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Wait.... @Wilco is @Miser? what? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Doctor Dom 1,904 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 5 hours ago, Val said: Sorry but what was the question? 😅 Was just wondering if there was any sexual tension (from his end) when you met him? Like, did you get the feeling you were likr a canary in a lion's paw when he had his arm around you? (or is he totally not into it as most of his recent fan pictures seem to show) Thank you kindly Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wilco 894 Posted January 11 Author Report Share Posted January 11 2 hours ago, Gordon Comstock said: Miser.... how many times have you made an "I've changed" thread over the years? It seems like you make them shortly before your impending meltdowns, then come back with a new username and rinse and repeat every 6 months. Val's right that you really need to stop using gnr forums as therapy and go see an actual therapist. Get the fuck off whatever you've replaced xanax with and talk to someone in real life who can actually help you, instead of writing things on here and hoping it comes true. Good luck man. Sad thing is it's sort of like that Boy Who Cried Wolf story isn't it? When I actually have changed, no one believes it. I did that a lot, as you note. I don't believe in therapy. I've tried it. It's bullshit to me. I'm deeply unhappy. I tried talking to my ex, Gianna, from 9 years ago today. All the women since if we're being honest have just been replacements for her. She acts like such a hardass when she never was. Got married and divorced. So cold about everything; she never was, but life has hardened her. Doesn't wanna talk. The other ex, Julia; dead by suicide. Others I don't care about or care to speak to I'm sure are doing whatever. And the one I'm in now? Doesn't respect me, barely loves me, and cheats. What can I say for it all? I've got a good record of disappointed women who once truly believed me in with their whole hearts that I let down. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gordon Comstock 2,172 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 I don't care if you don't believe in therapy. Not everybody needs it. But can you at least see that to some extent, that's how you've been using GNR forums? You've been posting personal stuff for like 15 years now and you seemingly always fail to make the changes that you really need to, or at least fail to stick with them. You post a bunch of shit, people give you advice, you ignore it, and the cycle repeats. Go to a better therapist. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
AxlisOld 9,058 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 And miser calls everyone else a cuck... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Dazey 1,003 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 4 minutes ago, AxlisOld said: And miser calls everyone else a cuck... Of course he does. It's got one syllable. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wilco 894 Posted January 11 Author Report Share Posted January 11 50 minutes ago, AxlisOld said: And miser calls everyone else a cuck... Let's be honest here now. You've been cheated on too. You can't take the looseness out of a woman by marrying her. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
GnRLiars 4,461 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 4 minutes ago, Wilco said: Let's be honest here now. You've been cheated on too. You can't take the looseness out of a woman by marrying her. Everyone's been cheated on whether emotionallymof physically. What doesn't kill you makes youn stronger It's ok to grieve, but at some point you need to get the fuck over it and move on Look forward, not back, keep the past iin the past. Grow Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Bill Brasky 15,528 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Doh moe me athaa gottoo Misaah Mizer doh mo doh moe Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Donald Trump 7,333 Posted January 12 Report Share Posted January 12 Do you believe in life after love? If I could turn back time. I’m not angry anymore. Miser, thanks for chering. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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