No for real though....I'll give it to you straight.
This is gonna hurt, but it's for your own good.
It's over man. I'm sorry. But she's gone.
The longer you drag it out, the more it's gonna hurt. You go right back to square one. You're right back to that first day of breaking up and crying and all that horrible shit.
Here's the harsh horrible truth that you know in your head but your heart refuses to accept: she doesn't love you anymore. I'm sorry to put it so bluntly and coldly, but that's just how women are. One day they look at you with love in their eyes, and the next there's nothing there but coldness; almost hate. They're not wired the same way we are. Their feelings just "change" and they walk away forever, and we're like these pathetic puppy dogs waiting for our master to return.
First of all....there's no such thing as "closure." There's no perfect goodbye or anything. So stop hoping to feel some kind of resolution from her. It can never come from her....moving on only comes from YOU. And you can't just "move on" like your friends say. If there's no other girl to "move on" to, then you're just stuck. But...you do need to get over her and get on with your life.
FIRST: block her number, block her emails. All of it. Remove her number from your phone. Remove all pictures of her from your phone. I'm not saying delete or destroy it, just remove it. Hell, write it down on a piece of paper, and put that in a box with all the stuff that reminds you of her...all the pictures, birthday cards, etc. ALL of it.
NEXT: Take that box that contains all the physical reminders of her, and seal it up tight with tape, and put it somewhere you won't see it, like the back of a closet or a garage. You'll still have it, but you won't be able to access it. No more looking at her pictures. No more re-reading her texts. And for godsakes if you have nudes of her, don't look at those either. Just put them all in a safe place but do NOT allow yourself to go in there. It's locked off. It's sealed.
LAST AND MORE IMPORTANT: No contact. And I mean NO fucking contact. No emails, no texts, no phone calls, no stalking her on twitter or facebook, no looking up her friend's twitter or instagram....delete ALLLL that shit. She's gone. It's done. It's over. You are not allowed to see or speak to her anymore, cause all it's gonna do is feel like a fucking sledgehammer to your nutsack every time you have contact with her. If that means cutting off mutual friends....so be it. Moving on with your own life is more important. This is the hardest part....but just think of her as if she were dead. Cause the girl you dated for seven years did die in a way....she's not the same person any more. If you saw her tomorrow, it would be like two strangers. That love and intimacy and connection you had is gone, and the only way you're going to realize that and truly accept it is with NO CONTACT. It'll take all your strength to ignore a text from her...but you gotta understand if she's texting you it's only out of boredom or maybe even more sinister reasons...she just wants to fuck with your head like a cat toying with a mouse before it kills it. No more contact from this point on, you got that? She's gone...she doesn't like you anymore....she's not your friend anymore. You'll make new friends. You'll find a new girlfriend. She's fucking dead. YOU are alive though, and YOU have a life ahead of you, so it's time to forget her and start living your life for YOU.
These are all the words I wish I would have listened to every time a girl left me and I pined and moped and cried and wallowed in self pity. I've lost YEARS of my life that I'll never get back because I'd sit and wallow and long for these girls instead of just manning the fuck up and moving the fuck on.
I know that's really harsh to hear, but I think you need to hear it, and I'm saying it cause I want to help you. If people are telling you "oh there's still a chance" they're just trying to be nice and say what you want to hear. Well.....I'm telling you what you NEED to hear, even though I know you won't like it.
I hope that helps. Write again any time. Despite a few gypsies, we're pretty cool dudes here. We'll get you through this.